If you are trying to get a girlfriend,Don’t do any of these.

There’s a really simple explanation to your chronic singleness: you are doing your very best to not have a girlfriend. 

All your actions say ‘I really don’t want women to give me a chance at love’. It’s time to stop if you do any of these:

The reason ladies choose to date your mates but not you isn’t entirely because you’re broke, which is the reason most men go for.

• You’re trying too hard to prove you’re a really cool guy. Most women can spot genuine attitudes from a 20 mile radius, so putting on airs will eventually work against you. You may think women like the gloss and pomp of a cool dude, but in actual fact they see you as superficial and insecure.

• You’re afraid of rejection so you treat women like trash, hoping they will sidle up to you instead. If you go to the trouble of convincing women that you’re an ass because ‘ women like bad guys’, they actually will see you as an ass and stay away from you. Not all women are looking for bad boys to date, so just come as you are.

• You say the most inappropriate things and call them jokes- Though this may not be deliberate, offensive jokes rub of women the wrong way. Your male friends may find them funny, but that’s where it ends. If you want to find love, I advise that you find more girlfriend-appropriate jokes.

• Not all women are out for your money (and you don’t even have as much money as you like to believe). Things have changed over the years, women are assertive about how capable they are of looking after themselves; they wouldn’t have you insult their dignity by thinking they like you because of your money. Do you really want to not have a girlfriend? Then keep squawking about “materialistic girls” to every new girl you meet.